Tuesday, November 1, 2011


I... am not going to panic. I am not going to panic.

I am not going let my abandonment issues and fears of being alone cause any accelerated heart palpitations, trembles, dizziness, nausea, or anything else like that. Lissie's here. And I will be rational.

Blake... is not home right now. This would not... normally be an issue. We encourage each other to go out, take time to ourselves, hang out with people not each other. Long term relationships get tiresome and sometimes we need different people or just ourselves. That's fine. It's encouraged. It's well needed.

The problem? Blake left Hope 16.5 hours ago. No one else in the house has seen him since. Now, that's fine, considering he told me he'd be going out. He said he was going to go into town and get away from the laptop for a bit. Maybe hit a cafe or something. I was glad he was getting out. I was happy to hear he'd be breaking his routine. He said he'd pick me up some gardening essentials from the shop on his way back to Hope.

I know why he went out. In two weeks it's our 3 year anniversary. I know why he didn't want me to come with him. It's not that it wasn't obvious. It was. But he plays the excuse game well, and I play along.

But he said he'd be home in time for dinner.

He's not.

You know how often Blake misses dinner? As often as I miss my morning work out. It happens about once a month. He missed breakfast too. Bed's untouched. He's just not home.

I'm worried. I'm not going to lie, I'm scared sick. And I want him back. So I'm going to hang out with Lis, keep my panic and trust issues at bay, and I'll see him when he gets back. Because he'll be back. It's still early, and he'll be back. There's no other option. That's all there is to it.


  1. Oh fuck. Do you want me to start looking?

  2. I finally got her to try and rest, but yes. I think that would be a good idea. I mean... Yes. Just yes.

  3. I'm leaving today, I could go out and see if I could find him before I start heading north.

  4. Extra eyes would be... appreciated. Thanks Opal.

  5. Probably the last person you want to hear from.
    But more eyes are a good thing, right?

  6. No problem at all. I'm not in any hurry, so it's the least I can do. :)

  7. Thanks, guys... Really. It means a lot. <3